"This is a side lifestyle for me. I'm bi, not gay. I've had some great experiences and want to continue that, but will never fully cross over...."

Whenever I see a line like that on a profile, I'm reminded of the great line from Boys In The Band, spoken by 32 year old, ugly, pock marked, Jew fairy (his words, not mine) Harold:

"You're just a homosexual and you don't want to be."

Honey, if you're going to be a self-loathing fag, please do it somewhere else. Maybe someone should start up a website called self-loathingfags.com. That way, all the self-loathing fags can get together and enjoy each other's miserable lives.