It amazes me how many "happily partnered" guys are on the web sites like bear411, biggercity, and others. It makes me wonder why they have a profile on there if they are so "happy." And I love the ones that go out of their way to make it sound like there's nothing sexual about it. "Don't even think of hooking up with me. I am very happy with my man." Those are the first ones you'll catch at Steamworks. Just last week I saw a profile from a hot chaser in Southern California. He was "happily partnered to so and so. Just on here to chat with friends (that's what phones and email are for). Don't even think of hooking up with me. I never cheat." Well, all it took was me signing his guest book and he was all over me.

And yes, I'm being hypocritical, because when I was in a relationship, I did the same thing. But, I think I learned my lesson. Take it from an old daddybear who's been there. If you're going to cheat, just be honest about it. Don't post a profile that implies you have some blissful relationship. If you are truly that happy, you don't need to be on bear411.