Well this was a story that kind of came out of nowhere for me. I didn't even know this was happening until today.Apparently, same-sex marriage was legal in Iowa for, oh, something like the lunch hour today.
A judge had ordered Polk County, the home of Des Moines, to accept marriage license applications from same-sex couples. About 27 couples applied before a stay was granted a few hours later. Only one couple actually got the license, got hitched, and got the paperwork back to the county before the stay was granted. The remaining couples are left out in the cold.
So, you might think I would applaud this bold new step toward full recognition of our relationships, but I'm not.
Why, oh why, in God's name, did these guys have to dredge up the "gay marriage" issue now??? In Iowa for God's sake???? During an election cycle????
Oh yeah, it's great news for these two guys, but what about the rest of us? Don't you remember previous elections, where the "gay marriage" issue stirred up the religious right, and probably contributed to George Bush remaining in office??
This is a potential Pyrrhic victory. A victory that is so costly, it devastates the victor. The "gay marriage" issue has fallen out of the public eye. Now, we have to stir it up again in Iowa. You don't think we've handed the repuglicans a wedge issue once again?
Americans are, by and large, fair. Most Americans believe there should be some legal recognition for gay couples. Remember when civil unions were considered reactionary? Most Americans are now comfortable with that idea. They're just not comfortable with that word "marriage."
Why do we have to go for the throat. Nothing less than full "marriage" will be acceptable to so many gay activists. Well I say, fuck that. Let's fight the battles we can win. And we're not going to win the hearts and minds of Iowa and the rest of middle America by pushing the gay marriage issue now.















